Mid-life transitions
While menopause might deliver you some truly insane physical/emotional plot twists, the climactic reward that I will help you achieve is an awakened, untamed aliveness that simply sizzles. You’ll emerge as an empowered woman with tools and coping skills to help your journey towards healing and growth. You will have a new found self confidence that will tame your anxiety and mood swings
Parenting
“Parenting is the hardest job there is. I know I need help but finding the time, energy and resources feels impossible. I’m ready to make changes for my family’s wellbeing.”
We help parents better communicate with their children, set appropriate boundaries, advocate for their child’s needs, and take care of their own wellbeing. Parenting is a tough job – you deserve support! Our approach is warm, empathetic, and highly collaborative. We partner with parents to understand their child’s unique needs and strengths. Together, we’ll develop skills and strategies tailored to each family’s goals and values. If your family is going through a challenging time, please reach out. We offer virtual and in-office counseling for kids, teens, parents, and the whole family together.
How do you know you can use support? Do you ever experience:
- I feel like I’m failing as a parent. No matter how hard I try, I can’t seem to get through to my child or handle their behavior well.
- I lose my temper and yell at my kids over small things, even though I hate behaving that way. I just feel constantly overwhelmed.
- When my child acts out, I take it personally and get offended, then overreact. I need help regulating my own emotions.
- I second-guess every parenting decision I make. Am I being too lenient or too harsh? I feel paralyzed by self-doubt.
- I know I need to set boundaries with love, but it’s so draining dealing with constant resistance and arguing. I cave in just for some peace.
- My relationship with my partner is strained as we clash over different parenting styles and feel like bad cops passing the buck.
- I feel hurt and rejected when my teen pulls away from me. I’m not sure how to rebuild trust and understanding.
- As a single parent, I feel completely alone with all the responsibility. I need support but don’t know where to turn.
- I love my child fiercely but don’t like them very much right now. I feel guilty admitting that but I’m worn down.
- My kids’ difficult behaviors give me such anxiety about their future. I worry I’ve already damaged them with my mistakes.
Anxiety
If anxiety is getting in the way of your happiness and potential, we can help.
Living with anxiety is exhausting. You may constantly feel nervous, stressed, and on edge. Anxiety can take over your life, preventing you from doing everyday activities, maintaining relationships, and moving forward. I understand how debilitating anxiety can be.
I know my anxiety isn’t rational but I feel powerless against it.
-I feel wound up and tense most of the time, like I’m waiting for something bad to happen.
-My nerves feel frayed and I can’t relax.
-I worry over every little thing, playing out worst case scenarios in my head.
-My mind races with “what ifs” no matter how hard I try to stop it.
-Doing everyday things that never used to make me nervous now fills me with dread – going to work, social events, even just going outside.
-I feel this knot of tension in my stomach so often I’ve forgotten what it’s like to not be anxious. It’s like carrying around a weight in my gut.
-My heart races and my chest feels tight out of nowhere sometimes. I get dizzy and feel like I can’t catch my breath. It’s terrifying.
-I’m irritable and on edge constantly, snapping at loved ones over minor issues. I just don’t have any patience these days.
-My mind goes totally blank when I’m under pressure. I second-guess all my choices and have trouble making basic decisions.
-I replay cringeworthy moments and conversations for days after they happen, obsessing over what I should have done or said differently.
-I avoid going places where I could have a panic attack or be the center of attention. The fear takes over and keeps me trapped.
-At night my worries keep me up for hours. I toss and turn imagining future disasters instead of sleeping.
It’s exhausting feeling this fearful and on alert all the time. I wish I could break free from this prison in my mind.
Depression
Living with depression can feel lonely and debilitating. You may feel hopeless, unmotivated, and find little joy in life. Your symptoms may range from sadness to fatigue to thoughts of suicide. We want you to know – depression does not have to define you or hold you back from living a fulfilling life.
How do you know if depression might be effecting you?
-I feel sad and down most of the time now, for no clear reason. It’s like I’m living under a heavy cloud of gloom that just won’t lift. Even when good things happen, I can’t feel happy or enjoy anything.
-I’m tired and sluggish every day no matter how much I sleep. Just getting out of bed feels like the hardest thing in the world. I don’t have any energy or motivation to do basic tasks.
-Things I used to love doing now feel pointless and boring. I’ve lost interest in my hobbies, going out with friends, even getting work done. I just feel apathetic about everything.
-I beat myself up constantly in my head, thinking about how I’m not good enough, how I don’t deserve to be loved. I feel worthless, like a failure. My self-esteem is at rock bottom.
-I have such a hard time concentrating and remembering things these days. My mind feels foggy and slow no matter how hard I try to focus.
-I isolate myself from everyone because I don’t want them to see how sad and empty I feel inside. Interacting with people feels like too much effort.
-I’ve had some scary thoughts lately that life is not worth living and people would be better off if I wasn’t around. I’m not myself right now.
-I don’t look forward to or enjoy anything anymore. Every day just blends together in a lifeless, colorless haze. I’m just going through the motions, waiting for this dark feeling to pass.
Trauma
Trauma can be devastating, changing how you see yourself and the world. Whether your traumatic experience was recent or in the past, you don’t have to suffer alone. TPC can help you process trauma in a healthy way to reclaim your sense of safety and trust.
Our expertise includes treating trauma from:
- Abuse – physical, emotional, sexual
- Assault
- Accidents
- Natural disasters
- Witnessing violence
- Military combat
- Major medical issues
- Loss of loved ones
We help clients work through painful memories, emotions, and beliefs caused by trauma. Together we can:
- Reduce troubling PTSD symptoms like flashbacks, panic attacks, and hypervigilance
- Improve coping skills and emotional regulation
- Foster healthy relationships and a sense of community
- Find purpose and meaning in your post-traumatic life
You deserve to feel stable, empowered, and optimistic about the future. I offer judgment-free support to help you process trauma, pick up the pieces, and rebuild your life. Let’s talk about how we can start the healing process together.
How do you know if trauma might be effecting you?
- Ever since the traumatic event happened, I feel jittery, on edge, and emotionally raw – like my nerves are exposed. Small things make me jump or panic now.
- I try to avoid anything that reminds me of the trauma. Certain places, smells, sounds, even memories take me right back to that moment and it’s terrifying. My heart races and I feel powerless all over again.
- I have intrusive flashbacks of the traumatic event when I least expect it – both waking images and vivid nightmares. It makes me feel like I’m losing my grip.
- I feel emotionally numb, disconnected from the people and activities I used to enjoy. I’m just going through the motions each day feeling empty inside.
- I beat myself up over what I could have done differently, even though rationally I know the trauma wasn’t my fault. I’m plagued by guilt and self-blame.
- My relationships are strained because I’ve isolated myself. I don’t feel I can trust anyone and push away those trying to help me. The trauma created a wall between me and others.
- I feel exhausted and weighed down – like it takes all my energy just to cope with each day after what I’ve endured. Everything feels bleaker and more hopeless
- My mind replays the moments leading up to the event over and over even though I desperately want to avoid thinking about it. I just want peace.
- Loud noises, crowded spaces, confrontations – things I used to be fine with now make me jumpy, anxious, angry. I’m easily overwhelmed.
- I used to be an optimistic person but now I’ve lost faith that life can be good again. The trauma permanently changed something in me.
The emotional aftermath of trauma can be intense, complex, and long-lasting. Know that you don’t have to carry this burden alone – support is out there.
Coping Skills
Life throws all kinds of challenges our way. We help clients expand their repertoire of healthy coping strategies for managing stress, work/life balance, grief, health issues, trauma, and mental health struggles. You’ll gain tailored tools to resilience, self-care, emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and changing unhealthy patterns.
Relationship Boundaries
Unhealthy relationships take a toll on your self-esteem and wellbeing. TPC can help clients identify and implement relationship boundaries that align with their values. We’ll assess your unique situation, needs, communication style and build skills for assertively reinforcing your limits in romantic, family, friend, or professional relationships.